So my snowed in weekend was....a success! On Friday while I was at work, I dreaded 5:00 because I was not ready to go home and be alone. To be totally honest, I didn't think I would make it through the weekend because of the way I was feeling. By Saturday morning, I felt foolish for thinking that things would be bad. For one, I had Ciara (Thank you babes!!!!) to talk to. We literally talked for at least 13 total hours this weekend. As a result, I feel like we found out a lot about each other. Now guys, I totally don't want you to think I'm rebounding- I'm so not rebounding. I just honestly found a great new friend amidst all this drama. Aside from Ciara, I did some blogging, did a lot of flirting with people who shall remain unnamed ; ) and also spent a great deal of time alone. Well, not completely alone- I had my main man Oliver here. Yes, I changed his name to Oliver...it's what I wanted his name to be from the beginning.
I'm going off on a tangent here, but Oliver and Company is my absolute favorite movie, and my cat looks just like him- it so fits him : )
Anyway, things went pretty damn well, if I do say so myself. I know I'm not totally ready to have a new girlfriend, but the thing is, now I know that I'm not ready because of me...not because I'm still trying to get over an ex. I want to find the right person, I want to date, and flirt, and have fun, I want to spend nights alone, reading a book or working on my business, I want to be with me.
Okay, one more thing - if anyone has downelink, please send me a request: www.downelink.com/brittney-elizabeth. I blog about a lot more than my failed relationship there, so maybe it'll keep you entertained. Plus, I only accept people who have something to say, and as a result, I only have a handful of friends : /
Okay well, I'm done here for the night. I hope everyone is doing well : ) Remember that if you ever need to talk, please email me- as soon as I get it I'll write you back. And to my fellow East Coasters...enjoy the 20 inches we're getting tomorrow night! ...and no, I'm not kidding.
Too cute that ypu renamed your cat Oliver...I love that movie! And it's good to see that you're feeling better. I've been reading your blog since I found it on Craig's List. You remind me of me a couple of months ago, you progression is impressive. Keep it up and remember you always have your support group to lean on.
ReplyDeleteHaha, I thought I was original with the whole 15 days of solitude, but it looks like I'm doing pretty much exactly what you did seven months ago. It's good to know you're making it through. And your quote: "Break ups are the worst, but if I let them break me that's the real tragedy"
ReplyDelete...so true.